When Jack McPeck first contacted EndNotes, it was through our gmail email address and he sounded a bit angry in the email. I forget why. But we emailed over the months and he softened and finally, we were able to meet and I ran this story Saturday about the group he's involved in The Compassionate Friends.
After spending time with him for the interview, I realized that Jack's passion to help other parents grieve sometimes comes across as a sort of anger. And that's why I called him a grief activist. I've met others.
They don't have time anymore for small talk, bs of any kind, judgment or superficiality. They have suffered what some consider the greatest loss -- the loss of a child -- and they have a strong desire to help other navigate their special version of hell.
Was happy to finally connect with Jack. I learned a lot more from him than reflected in the short story.