A friend was talking about encountering a Spokane man who turned out to be a good guy.
But here's the thing. My friend knew that the fellow was at one time married to a woman my friend had worked with a few years ago. He wasn't sure, though, that they were still a couple.
He had heard something about a divorce or almost-divorce.
So he wisely steered clear of that whole subject.
Smart man. There are so many situations where it is simply better to say nothing.
I was at a gathering about a year ago where I encountered a man I knew but had not seen in many years. I reminded him of a cookout we had attended not long after I moved to Spokane in the late '80s. At that time, his first child was just a few days away from being born.
He didn't seem to warm to this congenial stroll down memory lane. Later, I figured out why.
The wife standing with him at that event last year was not the same wife who had been great with child at that cookout almost 25 years ago.