Dream Come True Success Came To Nick Stellino By Following A Few Simple Rules

What does it take to make a dream come true? Ask Nick Stellino. He jumped from dishwashing in a restaurant to stardom in a television cooking show. And he started out without “connections” or greasing anything but a skillet.

Stellino’s series on Italian cooking, “Cucina Amore,” debuted on public television in Seattle in January. (It airs on KSPS, channel 7, in Spokane on Saturdays at 2 p.m.)

Stellino, who lives in Brentwood, Calif., also has emerged as an author. You see him in chef’s whites, presenting a tableful of food, on the cover of his “Cucina Amore” cookbook (Doubleday).

Tucked inside is a CD of romantic Italian songs to accompany dinner. Stellino made sure that the publishers included his mother’s favorite, “Che Sera Triste, Che Chiaro ‘E Luna” (better known as “Autumn Leaves” in the United States).

Fans greet him on the street. They like his engaging Sicilian warmth, the homey memories of his family in Italy, the way he makes cooking Italian food so easy.

“This is the best ride of my life,” he says over lunch at Drago, the Italian restaurant in Santa Monica, Calif., where he once worked as a pasta chef.

Here’s how it came about, condensed into 12 rules for success that anyone can follow.

Rule 1: Do something you love and believe in. Stellino quit a job as a stockbroker because he couldn’t stand the way the market’s vicissitudes destroyed dreams and ate up retirement nest eggs. What he loved was cooking and entertaining.

Rule 2: Be willing to start at the bottom. Stellino talked his way into a post as head chef in a small mid-Los Angeles restaurant. In almost the same breath, he confessed he had no experience. That’s how he wound up washing dishes, the only other job that was open.

Rule 3: Look for opportunities to improve your skills. Stellino volunteered to help with simple cooking tasks and gradually advanced to preparing dinners. To learn even more, he took off for Italy and worked without pay in a series of restaurants there.

Rule 4: Don’t let obstacles stop you. No sooner had Stellino landed a job as head chef - legitimately - in another restaurant than he damaged his knee so severely in a football game that he couldn’t work. Instead of lamenting, “Why did this happen to me?” he said: “Well, it happened. What can I do about it?”

The answer was therapy. “I decided my knee would be better than ever,” he says. And after months of rehabilitation, it was. This gave him confidence that he could make things happen.

Rule 5: Be willing to take risks. Stellino was cooking at Drago, had organized an Italian chefs’ club and appeared in commercials for a pasta sauce. It was a good life, but he wanted something more. With the backing of his wife, Nanci, he decided to aim for television. They allowed six months to sell his idea. “It took eight,” he says.

Rule 6: Do the legwork. Stellino put together a business proposal and a tape filmed at home. (The Stellinos live in a ‘30s Brentwood cottage where it’s routine for friends to wander about, helping as Stellino cooks in the closet-sized kitchen.) Next, he went to the library to research the business end of the field. After a couple of weeks, he emerged with a long list of contacts. Day after day he called, offering his proposal and tape.

Rule 7: Don’t take “no” for an answer. Some responses were friendly; others were nasty. No one was interested. “I did not allow myself to take this personally,” he says. Instead, he would ask for a referral to someone who might be interested. He hit pay dirt with a call to KCTS, the public television station in Seattle, which referred him to a Seattle-based production firm called West 175 Enterprises, Inc.

Rule 8: Never give less than your best. Cooking for TV is a different ballgame from cooking at home, or in a restaurant kitchen. Once, Stellino accidentally burned some garlic. The tainted pasta “all’arrabbiata” looked fine to the camera, but Stellino knew it was not fit to eat and threw it away. However, it’s the custom to feed the crew after a shoot. So he made another batch.

Rule 9: Give credit to those who helped you along the way. Stellino spends lots of time talking about the people who supported him, from the librarian who helped locate contacts to Connie Lunde, the book designer who listened to Stellino’s favorite music and read his favorite books in order to develop a personalized format.

Rule 10: Be willing to go the extra mile. Stellino contacts public television stations, even those that don’t show his series, and volunteers to assist in their fund drives. He knows such efforts can pay off in the future.

Rule 11: Never think that you know it all. Stellino is always anxious to improve. His book ends with a form that encourages readers to contact him with their reactions and suggestions.

Rule 12: There’s no point in being successful if you don’t enjoy life. Each afternoon, Stellino stops work to go for coffee with his wife, perhaps to one of the places where he sat, day after day, writing his book in longhand. They chat, plan dinner, go to the market - and Stellino cooks. Then they watch television. After this time-out, Stellino returns to his projects.

Pasta Alla Nanci

This is a simple recipe from Nick Stellino’s book, “Cucina Amore.” Stellino explains that cooking the pasta briefly with the sauce helps to bind it with the flavors. Boiling the sausages first makes for a leaner dish.

1/2 pound Italian sausage

1/4 cup olive oil

4 cloves garlic, sliced

1/4 teaspoon red pepper flakes

2 tablespoons oil-packed sun-dried tomatoes, chopped

1-1/2 pounds tomatoes, peeled and diced

Salt

1 pound pasta, such as penne, pennette or rigatoni

2 tablespoons chopped fresh basil

Bring just enough water to cover sausage to boil in small saucepan. Add sausage and cook 5 minutes. Drain and place in bowl of cold water.

When sausage is cool enough to handle, dry with kitchen towel, cut into thin slices and set aside.

Heat olive oil over medium heat in large skillet. Add garlic and red pepper flakes. Cook 3 minutes. Add sausage and sun-dried tomatoes. Cook, tossing well, until sausage starts to brown, about 3 minutes.

Add diced tomatoes and 1/4 teaspoon salt. Toss and cook until sausage is well browned, about 5 minutes. Keep sauce warm over medium heat.

Meanwhile, bring at least 3 quarts water to boil in large pot, adding salt if desired. Add pasta and cook according to package directions until just tender.

Drain well, return to pot and add sauce gradually along with basil, tossing well to coat pasta. Cook on medium heat 2 minutes. Serve at once.

Yield: 4 to 6 servings.

Nutrition information per serving (based on 4 servings): 733 calories, 486 milligrams sodium, 32 milligrams cholesterol, 29 grams fat (36 percent fat calories), 95 grams carbohydrates, 22 grams protein, 1.5 grams fiber.