Do The Write Thing Teens Learn About Resolving Conflict By ‘Composing Peace’
Ever get into a fight with someone and have no idea how to get out of it without violence or yelling? The Peace and Justice Action League of Spokane has some ideas, and they’re vividly illustrated by this year’s winners of the PJALS “Compose Peace” essay contest.
More than 300 entries came in to the eighth annual writing contest, offering narrative examples of how people can resolve their differences. The winners, coincidentally, all came from Sharon Becker’s classroom at Shadle Park High School.
Our Generation is printing the first place winners from both team and individual categories. The team winner starts below; look for the individual winner on page G2.
MEMO: See essays under headlines: 1. Getting a fly’s-eye-view of a fight with dad 2. A little mediation by mom gets warring sisters out of a tights spot
This sidebar appeared with the story: Resolving conflict Here, also, are some tips on resolving conflict that the essay writers used so compellingly in their work: Stop! Take time to cool off. Don’t blame or name-call. Think hard about what your needs are. Ask “why” questions. Listen for the other person’s needs. Show that you are listening. Explain you feelings; talk it through. Discuss options. Choose a solution together. Follow-through and follow-up.
This sidebar appeared with the story: Resolving conflict Here, also, are some tips on resolving conflict that the essay writers used so compellingly in their work: Stop! Take time to cool off. Don’t blame or name-call. Think hard about what your needs are. Ask “why” questions. Listen for the other person’s needs. Show that you are listening. Explain you feelings; talk it through. Discuss options. Choose a solution together. Follow-through and follow-up.