For better or for worse, depending on which side of the ideological aisle one chooses, a divided America crosses a historic threshold Monday as state-approved marriages of same-sex couples take place for the first time.
Promised a waiver of the normal three-day waiting period, the seven gay and lesbian couples who successfully sued for marriage rights in Massachusetts will wed before relatives, friends and supporters in Boston and three other towns. The United States will become just the fourth country in the world where same-sex couples can tie the knot.
The couples’ jubilation will be shared by gay-rights advocates across the country, including many in states such as Washington, California, New York and New Jersey where comparable lawsuits are moving forward.
“This isn’t just one historic moment in Massachusetts,” said Kevin Cathcart, executive director of the gay-rights group Lambda Legal. “It’s the start of what will be a long period of progress and breakthroughs, with gay couples in other states also winning the right to marry.”
For foes of gay marriage, Monday’s weddings represent a stinging defeat – but one they hope will be reversed by a backlash among politicians and voters nationwide.
“What I’m starting to see is people who are apolitical, who never got involved before, saying, ‘This is too much – we don’t want same-sex marriage foisted on us,’ ” said Mathew Staver, president of a Florida-based legal group, Liberty Counsel, that is opposing gay marriage in numerous court cases.
Both sides in the debate expect the issue to figure prominently in the November election, with Massachusetts serving as a rallying cry and alarm bell.
Candidates for Congress will face pressure to explain their position on a proposed federal constitutional amendment that would ban gay marriage. Voters in Georgia, Kentucky, Mississippi, Oklahoma, Missouri and Utah will consider similar amendments to their state constitutions.
“It will be a national referendum about gays and gay marriage,” said Rod McKenzie of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. “We’re the underdog when it comes to all these ballot measures – the scale is bigger than we’ve ever had to deal with.”
In states with the ballot measures, divisive campaigns already are under way.
And nationwide, both sides are planning marches and rallies over the coming week – among them, pro-gay marriage events in Iowa City, Iowa, and Las Cruces, N.M., and a “Not on My Watch” rally in Arlington, Texas, for pastors opposed to gay marriage.
Though opinion polls show that most Americans oppose gay marriage, the rate of acceptance is much higher among people under 30 – for the younger generation, polls show a roughly even split on the issue.
Mathew Staver, referring to demographic trends, said the next 18 months would be critical for gay-marriage foes. “The window is now to pursue a federal marriage amendment that would put a halt to this nonsensical patchwork of litigation,” said the Liberty Counsel attorney.
Even if many Americans wish otherwise, Massachusetts, as of Monday will join the Netherlands, Belgium and Canada’s three most populous provinces as the only places worldwide where gays can marry.
In the Netherlands, which pioneered gay marriage three years ago, the practice now stirs little controversy. Cheryl Jacques, a former Massachusetts legislator who heads the Human Rights Campaign, a major gay-rights group, hopes her compatriots eventually emulate the Dutch.
“I’m very proud of my state,” Jacques added. “Massachusetts is going to teach the rest of the country a lesson – equality doesn’t hurt anyone.”