ST. GEORGE, Utah – A member of a polygamous sect who entered into an arranged marriage with his 14-year-old cousin testified Wednesday that he never forced himself on his wife.
Allen Steed took the stand in defense of Warren Jeffs, the leader of the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints who is facing two counts of being an accomplice to rape.
The alleged victim – who is now 21 – testified last week that Jeffs forced her to marry Steed and that her husband ordered her to have sex. When she complained to Jeffs that Steed was “touching her” in ways she did not like and asked that the marriage be dissolved, she said, the self-styled prophet refused.
Steed, now 26, has not been charged with a crime. On Wednesday, he testified that his wife had initiated their first sexual intercourse. “She rolled up close to me and asked me to scratch her back. … I felt like she was ready to go forward,” Steed said.
“I would have liked to have thought I was ( in charge of the relationship),” he said, “but I never was.”
The charges against Jeffs are a tactic employed in Utah to prosecute underage marriage. If convicted, he would face up to life in prison.
Steed, who was 19 when church leaders told him to marry his cousin, acknowledged Wednesday that he had been a clumsy suitor. Socializing between the sexes before marriage is prohibited in FLDS society.
“I’m sure it wasn’t easy … knowing now how I was then,” Steed said softly.
Visibly uncomfortable, the tall, lean Steed had to stand to be heard and occasionally dabbed at tears. “I’ve never been really good at communication,” he said.
Steed acknowledged that his cousin was standoffish to him, and had made clear at times that she didn’t desire the marriage. But other times she was forward and affectionate, he said.
“Was there ever a time you had relations with (your cousin) where you believed you were forcing yourself?” defense attorney Wally Bugden asked.
“No,” Steed said.
The two remained married until 2004, when the accuser left Steed for another FLDS member and fled the church.