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Same-sex couples begin exchanging vows in Iowa

Tue., April 28, 2009

DES MOINES, Iowa – Same-sex couples in Iowa began holding hastily planned weddings Monday as the state became the third to allow gay marriage, a leap that even some supporters find hard to grasp in the nation’s heartland.

Within hours of a state Supreme Court ruling legalizing gay marriage taking effect, several same-sex couples had exchanged vows on the steps of the Polk County Administrative Building.

“It’s not very romantic is it?” Melisa Keeton joked, referring to the location of the ceremony and the media attention, before marrying Shelley Wolfe.

The couple were allowed to wed after getting a judge to waive the state’s three-day waiting period. The waiver was granted after the couple claimed the wait was stressful on Keeton, who is pregnant and due in August.

The couple, who will go by the last name Keeton, were married by the Rev. Peg Esperanza of the Church of the Holy Spirit. She later married at least two other couples, all at no charge.

“God sent me here today, and I’ve said OK,” said Esperanza, a lesbian who plans to marry her partner in October.

On April 3, the Iowa justices upheld a lower court ruling that rejected a state law restricting marriage to a union between a man and woman. The decision added Iowa to the list of states where gay marriage is legal, joining Massachusetts and Connecticut. A Vermont law allowing gay marriage will take effect in September.

Officials said the Polk County recorder’s office had received 82 marriage applications from same-sex couples by 4 p.m.

One of them was Alicia Zacher, 24, and Jessica Roach, 22, who waited in a misting rain to enter the office and file their application. They later got a waiver and planned to get married as soon as possible after seeing how California voters last year reinstated a ban on same-sex marriage.

“You just never know when they’ll try to take it away,” Roach said.

A poll by the University of Iowa taken just before the high court’s ruling showed 26 percent of Iowans support gay marriage. That number rises to more than 50 percent when people were asked if they supported either gay marriage or civil unions.

“If they want to marry, I don’t see a reason not to let them,” said Joe Biase, a 31-year-old college student from Des Moines. “For a state in the heartland, it’s come a long way.”

Tom Wittman, 55, of Johnston, agreed.

“I think it’s fine,” he said. “It is an issue of equal rights.”

Bryan English of the Iowa Family Policy Center, which opposes same-sex marriage, said the Legislature and Gov. Chet Culver had put some “poor county recorders in an awfully tough position today” by not working to block the court’s ruling from taking effect.

The group wants the state to begin the multiyear process of amending Iowa’s constitution to overturn the court decision.

Culver and majority Democrats have refused, which Republicans predicted will hurt Democrats in the 2010 elections.

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