Annie’s Mailbox: Mom practiced parenting, supervision

Dear Annie: I am responding to “Growing Up Way Too Fast,” whose young son likes to play with the neighbor boy who plays adult video games and is allowed to watch frightening, sexually suggestive adult TV shows.

Our three kids sometimes had friends from homes with questionable parenting skills. Our kids were allowed to play only at our house with those friends. The first time they acted inappropriately, I explained that their behavior was rude and unkind and not permitted in our house, and the consequence was that they would be sent home. The second time, they were sent home. That usually solved the problem. But if it happened again, they were sent home and not allowed to return for several days. Of course, I phoned the parents to let them know their child would be coming home, but unless the parent asked, I gave no reason.

Our kids didn’t like this rule, but that is where parenting comes in. Watchful supervision was always on high alert when these kids came over. – Mean Mother Award Winner

Dear Mother: Congratulations on understanding what it takes to be an effective parent and not letting an unpopular rule deter you.

Annie’s Snippet for St. Patrick’s Day: As you slide down the banister of life, may the splinters never point in the wrong direction.