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Are We There Yet? archive for Jan. 1, 2009

SUNDAY, MARCH 15, 2009

More math info

Laurie Rogers, one of the members of the Parents' Council, asked me to post the following information for parents:Debbie Knutson, who runs a tutoring business in Spokane, and I have been discussing how parents can determine how much mathematics their children actually know. Currently, Washington…

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THURSDAY, MARCH 12, 2009

“Slow parenting" 

In some circles, parenting has become a competitive sport. For some reason, we can’t help but compare our kids to others. If we hear of a kid who can sing the ABCs at the age of 18 months, we feel pressured to break out the…

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WEDNESDAY, MARCH 11, 2009

Juggling it all

When a friend asked me what I was up to these days, I gave her a sample of my usual “to do” list. “Mothers have always quilted,” she said matter-of-factly. “That’s what women have to do survive.” I don’t like to sew and would never…

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MONDAY, MARCH 9, 2009

The family that volunteers together…

Volunteering as a family provides quality time for busy families, strengthens communication and promotes cooperation, according to the Corporation for National & Community Service. For many families, the experience also increases problem-solving skills while enabling parents and older siblings to be role models to the…

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FRIDAY, MARCH 6, 2009

Books We Love

Every year, the Association for Library Service to Children awards the prestigious Caldecott Medal to the artist of the most distinguished American picture book for children. Some of those books are probably already on your bookshelves at home – they’re the ones with the gold…

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WEDNESDAY, MARCH 4, 2009

No cussing

I’m embarrassed to admit this, but my kids recognize a bad word when they hear one. Thankfully, they don’t use expletives in their conversations with friends and family but I know for a fact they’ve heard me utter the occasional cuss word during stressful moments.…

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SUNDAY, MARCH 1, 2009

When looking for a preschool, don’t forget about art 

The Chicago Tribune published a “preschool primer” this weekend and while reading the article, this piece of advice caught my eye: Check out the walls.Besides inspecting the building for safety and assessing toys, activities, teachers and whether or not children are engrossed in activities, parents…

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FRIDAY, FEB. 27, 2009

WEDNESDAY, FEB. 25, 2009

The Influence of Peers

Kids don't really listen to parents, according to Judith Rich Harris, author of the "The Nurture Assumption: Why Children Turn Out the Way They Do." Instead, it's all about their peers. In “Why Parents (Still) Don’t Matter,” TIME recently interviewed Harris, whose book caused a…

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MONDAY, FEB. 23, 2009

A conversation about math and science

Laurie Rogers, one of the original members of the newspaper's Parents' Council, asked me to post the following on the blog:Spokane’s school board is hosting a “Coffee and Conversation” at Ferris High School library, 3020 E. 37th Avenue, on Wednesday, Feb. 25, 6-6:50 p.m., prior…

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SUNDAY, FEB. 22, 2009

Friends without kids 

As each year goes by, I find myself losing touch with friends who don’t have children. This makes me sad, especially since some of these people have been part of my life for a long time. But I find that my world has become so…

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FRIDAY, FEB. 20, 2009

Car seat check this Saturday

In light of the current Spokane County Superior Court case involving a Post Falls mother charged with vehicular homicide for not properly installing her 2-month-old’s car seat (which led to her daughter's death in a car accident three years ago), here’s an opportunity for families…

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WEDNESDAY, FEB. 18, 2009

When Feelings Hurt

My youngest son had a half-day today. When he climbed into the car he started crying quietly. "I had a bad day," he said."What happened? Did you get in trouble?""No," he sniffed, and cried harder."Did someone hurt your feelings?""Yes!" he sobbed. "I don't wanna talk…

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Day care in Idaho 

I just don’t get it. Why has it taken so long for lawmakers in Idaho to vote for a bill that requires criminal background checks for day cares in their state?According to Betsy Z. Russell’s story earlier this week, legislators have been striking down the…

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SUNDAY, FEB. 15, 2009

How gesturing can build your child’s vocabulary 

Parents who point and move their hands and bodies when they talk are doing more than simply communicating with their kids. According to research by two University of Chicago psychologists, they’re also building their children’s vocabulary. In a recent Chicago Tribune story, “U. of C.…

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THURSDAY, FEB. 12, 2009

Date night 

With meals to cook, a house to clean, kids to care for on top of a career and other obligations, it’s sometimes hard for moms and dads to get any alone time together. Gone are the days when you could leave for a romantic getaway…

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WEDNESDAY, FEB. 11, 2009

Kissing 

I drive my nine-year-old son to school every day. Each morning as he prepares to get out of the car he leans forward and plants a big kiss on my cheek. "Bye, Mom," he says. "Have a good day. I'll see you after school," I…

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TUESDAY, FEB. 10, 2009

"Friending" your kids on Facebook 

I confess: I have a mild addiction to Facebook. It hasn’t taken over my life but it does take up my time. Instead of working, I find myself taking a quick peek and checking on my friends’ status updates. Before I realize it, I’ve been…

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SUNDAY, FEB. 8, 2009

Wimpy kids? 

American parents tend to coddle their children, according to Hara Estroff Marano, an editor at Psychology Today and author of “A Nation of Wimps: The High Cost of Invasive Parenting.” They don’t want their kids to ever feel bad, she wrote. They become over-involved and…

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THURSDAY, FEB. 5, 2009

WEDNESDAY, FEB. 4, 2009

Mother Charged in Infant's Death 

Police say mother installed baby’s seat improperlyJody Lawrence-TurnerStaff writer Spokane County prosecutors charged a Post Falls woman with vehicular homicide Tuesday in the death of her infant daughter, who was severely injured by a car’s airbag while riding in a rear-facing car seat in Spokane.If…

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The economy and the mental health of families

A growing number of families have hit a crisis point, according to this recent USA Today story, “As economic fears rise, families on verge of unraveling.”Parents are suffering from stress and sometimes can’t cope with economic uncertainty, experts say. The worst-case scenario happened in Los…

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MONDAY, FEB. 2, 2009

"Dirt don't hurt" 

In fact, it might even be healthy. In “Babies Know: A Little Dirt is Good for You,” Jane E. Brody of The New York Times wrote about the “hygiene hypothesis.” Basically, the theory suggests that we are too clean for our own good. Since we…

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THURSDAY, JAN. 29, 2009

Eight might be more than enough 

Earlier this month, I asked you about your thoughts on family planning and how factors that include money, time, religious beliefs and environmental concerns all play into your decisions. So along those lines, I thought I’d bring up the California couple that gave birth to…

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WEDNESDAY, JAN. 28, 2009

Butterfeet and Waterpoop 

Still reading old journals. I came across a list of "Alexisms." Funny mispronunciations my then four-year-old son uttered.Instead of barefoot he said butterfeet. Who knows why?He assured me that his new sandals were waterpoop. I'm hoping he meant waterproof.Cigarettes were dubbed sniggerettes, and one blustery…

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