Dear Annie: I have been married to “Glenn” for 18 years, and we have two teenage daughters. Three years ago, we bought a new home so we could have a larger family room.
Glenn always wanted a plasma TV, so when we moved into the new house, he bought one. The problem is, he considers it his alone. He won’t let the girls watch anything on it, saying the TV was not made for “shows like that.” He becomes angry if we watch when he’s not home. One time he went out of town on business and took the power cord with him.
When Glenn watches TV, we aren’t allowed to make any noise. Of course, when guests come over, he’s a different person. He shows off the TV and will watch whatever the guests want.
Now the girls and I watch TV in another room in the house or do other activities. It’s sad when your children think their father would rather watch his 3-year-old toy than spend time with them. What can I do to bring my family back together – other than breaking the plasma TV? – Not a Fan
Dear Not: We assume you’ve spoken to your husband about his fixation on the idiot box and pointed out that his daughters (and wife) feel neglected. Would he be willing to set aside a TV-free hour once a week where he will spend time with his family? If he refuses, you will have to accept the fact that the man is obsessed and make the best of it. We hope he’ll wake up before it’s too late.
Local journalism is essential.
Give directly to The Spokesman-Review's Northwest Passages community forums series -- which helps to offset the costs of several reporter and editor positions at the newspaper -- by using the easy options below. Gifts processed in this system are not tax deductible, but are predominately used to help meet the local financial requirements needed to receive national matching-grant funds.
Subscribe to the Coronavirus newsletter
Get the day’s latest Coronavirus news delivered to your inbox by subscribing to our newsletter.