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Pope Francis eases way for divorced Catholics while reiterating limits on gay unions

By Tracy Wilkinson Tribune News Service

VATICAN CITY – Defining his mission to create a more merciful church, Pope Francis published a much-anticipated exhortation on love and marriage Friday, easing the way for divorced and remarried Catholics to rejoin the faith but reiterating limits on gay unions and the ban on contraception and abortion.

The 260-page document, the product of several years of debate within the Roman Catholic hierarchy, advocates for flexibility, tolerance and compassion in the church. But it may disappoint Francis’ legions of liberal fans looking for doctrinal change.

“By thinking that everything is black and white, we sometimes close off the way of grace and of growth,” the pope wrote. “Let us remember that ‘a small step, in the midst of great human limitations, can be more pleasing to God than a life which appears outwardly in order.’”

As he enters the fourth year of his papacy, Francis, the first pontiff from the Americas, has struck a sharp contrast to his predecessor, Benedict XVI, by calling for a more inclusive church. He has traveled to the poorest slums and violent prisons on four continents, washed the feet of Muslims during Easter ceremonies and excoriated the rich and powerful for their greed and neglect.

The guidelines released Friday continued that theme, treading a line that is not always predictable. In some areas, he pushes boundaries, while in others he hews to traditional teachings.

The document represents Francis’ final word on a host of family- and life-related issues that were debated at two frequently tense synods at the Vatican in 2014 and 2015.

Titled “Amoris Laetitia,” Latin for “The Joy of Love,” the Apostolic Exhortation gives some wiggle room on granting Communion to remarried divorcees – a hot-button issue that divides Catholic conservatives and progressives and is of special interest to American Catholics.

Currently, the church officially excludes remarried divorced Catholics from Communion because it sees their first marriage as still valid, meaning the person is living in sin.

Francis states bluntly that “divorce is an evil” but adds, “It is important that the divorced who have entered a new union should be made to feel part of the Church. They are not excommunicated and they should not be treated as such, since they remain part of the ecclesial community.”

Their exclusion “can be surmounted,” he says, adding that local priests and bishops can work with such couples to that end.

“The Christian community’s care of such persons is not to be considered a weakening of its faith and testimony to the indissolubility of marriage; rather, such care is a particular expression of its charity,” the pope wrote.

The pope admits that the document is not offering “a new set of general rules, canonical in nature and applicable to all cases,” but he appears to leave the door open to bishops to offer Communion on a case-by-case basis.

“Is the pope changing the rules? No,” said Vatican spokesman Greg Burke. “But does he leave daylight? Yes. There is an attitude of welcome.”

On gay unions, Francis is less ambivalent. “De facto or same-sex unions, for example, may not simply be equated with marriage,” he writes. “No union that is temporary or closed to the transmission of life can ensure the future of society.”

Francis is equally forthright on abortion: “So great is the value of a human life, and so inalienable the right to life of an innocent child growing in the mother’s womb, that no alleged right to one’s own body can justify a decision to terminate that life, which is an end in itself and which can never be considered the ‘property’ of another human being.”

Going further, he quotes synod documents which state that “those who work in health care facilities are reminded of the moral duty of conscientious objection,” and adds that “the Church strongly rejects the forced State intervention in favor of contraception, sterilization and even abortion. Such measures are unacceptable even in places with high birth rates, yet also in countries with disturbingly low birth rates we see politicians encouraging them.”


Francis’ views reflect Catholic doctrine, but his words will have extra resonance in the U.S. during an election year.

Church leaders broadly welcomed the pope’s message. Catholic liberals and gay groups expressed disappointment, while conservatives remained uncomfortable with granting any leeway that in their view could undermine religious discipline.

Los Angeles Archbishop Jose H. Gomez said the pope’s message comes at a critical time, when the meaning of marriage, family and love is “confused and disputed in our society.” Gomez said he was encouraged by what the pope said about preparing couples for marriage and the need to approach “wounded families” with compassion.

“We need to inspire people to see marriage and family as God’s way for their lives, and to call them to this adventure in life-long love that grows deeper through the sharing of joys and trials and the bringing of new life into the world,” Gomez said in a statement. “We all have a lot to learn from ‘Amoris Laetitia.’”

Blase Cupich, the archbishop of Chicago, said conservative Catholics who shun the idea of divorce should not be worried about the document’s conciliatory tone.

“It is not a slippery slope, but a pathway forward for people who have otherwise found themselves stuck,” Cupich said at a news conference. Francis’ “ability to really be sensitive to the human situation in life continues to amaze me. . He’s got an intuition about where people live their actual lives. He’s not living in a bubble.”

Catholics for Choice said the papal exhortation displayed the “immense chasm” between church policy and everyday Catholic practice.

“The law says one thing, but Catholics the world over behave according to their conscience,” Jon O’Brien, the group’s president, said in a statement. “How you apply the law matters – it’s what drives people away.”

O’Brien acknowledged that Francis’ pastoral approach represented a “breath of fresh air” compared to his predecessors. But, he added, the pope again condemned abortion as evil and went “back to the party line about contraception” to “shore up any concerns that conservatives may have that real change is possible.”

All this, O’Brien said, despite the fact that about 1 in 4 Catholics in the United States has been divorced.


Between the tough words on abortion and gay marriage, the document dwells at length on how to shore up the institution of marriage, offering guidance on how to build a loving family with tips on forgiveness, patience and sex.

Francis warns that “we treat affective relationships the way we treat material objects and the environment: everything is disposable; everyone uses and throws away, takes and breaks, exploits and squeezes to the last drop. Then, goodbye. Narcissism makes people incapable of looking beyond themselves, beyond their own desires and needs.”

He admits that the church has spent too long waving rule books at families instead of giving constructive advice on how to avoid breakups.

“We have long thought that simply by stressing doctrinal, bioethical and moral issues, without encouraging openness to grace, we were providing sufficient support to families, strengthening the marriage bond and giving meaning to marital life,” he writes.

To illustrate his point, Francis quotes the 1987 film “Babette’s Feast”: “The most intense joys in life arise when we are able to elicit joy in others, as a foretaste of heaven,” he writes. “We can think of the lovely scene in the film ‘Babette’s Feast,’ when the generous cook receives a grateful hug and praise: ‘Ah, how you will delight the angels!’”

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