De Leon: ‘Queen Bee’ Moms, Cliques

“Queen Bee Moms appear to have perfect lives,” she wrote. “They’re often very charming, and they really, really like being in charge. They’re often coaches, class parents, or heads of the PTA. The hallmark of a Queen Bee Mom isn’t that she’s in a leadership position (not all class parents are Queen Bees); it’s that she has to be in control.” I think I’ve had my share of experiences with Queen Bee Moms, but maybe I’ve also displayed some of the telltale signs – bossy behavior, afraid to ask for help, can’t admit when they feel overwhelmed/Virginia de Leon, Parents Council. More here .

Question: Do you know a “Queen Bee” mom? Have you ever encountered a mommy clique?