RS: Facing Facebook

Got an inquiry from a friend (in the conventional sense) about becoming a friend (in the specialized sense) with someone on Facebook. He and the other person have had political differences, but he got the invitation to be “friended.” What to do? Each to their own tastes. But - and yes, we here are on Facebook , and Twitter too among other things - the basic take here is that being someone’s “friend” on Facebook is a little different than the traditional type. A friend on Facebook is someone you choose to keep in touch with, and may or may not be more than that. The question: But would I throttle back on my opinions if I know that so-and-so might see them? Response: If they’re on line anywhere, they may be seen. A whole generation of politicians, among others, is about to learn that the hard way/Randy Stapilus, Ridenbaugh Press. More here .

Question: What rule of thumb do you use when deciding who should be your “friend” on Facebook and who shouldn’t?