Sex: To Wait Or Not To Wait

A mini-thread among Monday’s many threads argued the pro-cons of sex before marriage:

• Digger: I believe there are two things you must do before you decide to get married — (1) have sex — lots of sex - to make sure you’re compatible and (2) live together for at least a year - maybe two. Those are two of many issues to making a relationship last - so if they’re broken why bother?
• Shoshone Conservative: I did neither, yet I would say my marriage is just fine.
• DFO: I’m on Sho-Con’s side on this one.

Thoughts?