Taking time for yourself

So what do you do to recharge yourself…you know the person you were before you had kids. Sometimes we get so much into our role as being someones mom or dad ( and we are often called by that title) that we tend to lose a bit of ourselves.
I like to take art or outdoor classes seperate from my family sometimes just to have fun by myself and explore my interests, I also go to the gym 4 or 5 times a week as a “ME” break.
How do you find yourself? Do you have a certin time ( like once a month) where you go and do something just for yourself? How do you feel after this recharging?