Life lessons after kids

Instead of “B.C.” or “A.D.,” the dating system my husband and I use at our house is “B.K.”

B.K. – “Before Kids” – obviously refers to that period not so long ago when we could stay out late, sleep in, have leisure time to read books or just relax.

Looking back, I now wonder what I ever did with all those extra hours B.K. — those years when I didn’t have to change diapers or stay up all night to nurse or comfort a child.

While I miss having free time, I’m a lot more satisfied now. I also believe that I’ve become a better person as a result of my kids.

I’ve become more open-minded, I think, and certainly more patient. My little ones have taught me how to go with the flow and to see the world through a different lens. Giving birth, in many ways, also was an empowering experience.

How has parenthood changed you? What lessons have you learned from your own children?