9/11 and gradual return to normalcy

I heard several different reactions after asking if those with Sept. 11 birthdays or anniversaries have noticed a gradual return to normalcy when it comes to that unforgettable date.

A couple of readers were angry that I even suggested this might be possible. Perhaps they didn’t really understand what I was asking. Or maybe they were simply wrapped up in being competitive grievers.

Some, such as Cindie Webb, said it remains a day of conflicted emotions. “My dad’s birthday is Sept. 11. It’s a day of mixed feelings. I’m glad my dad is celebrating another year but sad for those who never got a chance to celebrate another birthday.”

Then there was this from Nancy Engard.

“Yes, thankfully having our anniversary on September 11th has become more normal again. My husband, Jim Shaules, and I will be celebrating our 30th this Tuesday. …We certainly will never forget the victims of 9/11 but we can (and will) celebrate OUR day.”