How to talk to your doc

If you’ve ever left a doctor’s appointment with unanswered questions, you’re not alone. Visits to the doctor can often feel like a one-sided conversation — you state your problem, and your doctor takes over.

In order to make the most of your appointment, you can take an active role in improving communication with your doctor, according to Richard Frankel, a professor of medicine and geriatrics at the Indiana University’s School of Medicine. Frankel, who has studied patient-physician communication, suggests that patients follow these tips:

“First, make a list before your visit. Write down any questions you have — a list will help jog your memory in case you feel rushed or uneasy during the appointment. Don’t be afraid to open the lines of communications and ask questions.

“On a similar note, consider practicing your questions with a friend or family member before you go, particularly if you’re uncomfortable asking the questions on your list. If you aren’t tongue-tied and can ask your doctor a question that’s brief and to the point, she’ll be more likely to provide a helpful response.

“Also, be sure to learn the best way to interact with your doctor. If it’s your first visit, ask your doctor how they interact with their patients. This can save time later on, Frankel said.

“Don’t be afraid to give your doctor feedback. If you felt like your questions weren’t answered, tell your doctor just that. Most patients are hesitant to offer feedback, but doctors won’t realize that they need to improve their communication skills unless their patients tell them.

“Finally, be honest with your doctor about any supplements or alternative medical treatments you are taking. Your doctor probably won’t ask about them, but it is important for her to know what medications you are taking so that harmful drug interactions can be avoided.