Create perfect soundtrack for your wedding
Think about weddings you’ve attended. How did you measure their success? Probably by whether you had a good time – or not. Top wedding coordinators know that music is the “good-time-factor” of a wedding. People have a good time when they can participate, and feel connected to it all. It’s a good sign when guests get up to dance frequently and when they’re sharing in the emotions of sentimental moments like father/daughter, mother/son dances, etc. When the music is dull or constantly intrusive, and there’s little involvement and interaction among the guests, chances are they’re waiting for the right time to say goodbye.
Make sure your special day is memorable and fun for everyone by following these helpful hints:
Ceremony & Reception
“Create a Plan: Visualize your wedding as a film, and think about the songs that would coordinate best with the scenes that unfold. For example, imagine the processional, the unity candle ceremony, the father/daughter dance, the mother/son dance, or even a special tribute to an important person in your life as you listen to sound clips of songs written especially for those moments.
“Stay Organized: Keep a notebook and jot down songs you’ve heard or ideas you’ve gathered. Then, when you finalize your choices and discuss them in detail with your band or DJ you can consider their suggestions without feeling pressured.
“Book Your DJ or Band: Once you know your date, book as soon as possible. DJs and bands have distinct advantages and disadvantages. DJs are usually less expensive, take up less space and offer playback of original songs by original artists. Bands can provide live sound and make any occasion seem elegant. Generally however, they are costly and your songs will be interpreted by the band, not necessarily performed with the “feel” you like or are used to.
“Think of Your Guests: Yes, this is your day. But if you really want to have a good time, you’ll want to make sure your friends and family are having fun, too. If you’re going to have guests that represent a mix of ages and tastes strive to select music from across the board – oldies to disco to R&B and pop. This extra effort will be worth it when everyone’s on the dance floor together.
Cool Idea
If you create an unforgettable wedding play list, share it with your guests. Burn your songs onto CDs and create labels that include your names and wedding date. Then hand these fun keepsakes out to your family and friends as they leave the reception.
Heart-warming, toe-tapping memories of your celebration will drift through people’s minds every time they hit the play button.