Rutgers holds silent vigil for student who killed self
President cites commitment ‘to values of civility … respect’
NEW BRUNSWICK, N.J. – Rutgers University held a silent vigil Sunday night to remember a student who committed suicide after his sexual encounter with a man in his dormitory room was secretly streamed online.
The tribute to 18-year-old freshman Tyler Clementi drew a few hundred people, many holding candles, to the school’s campus in New Brunswick.
While some area religious officials briefly addressed the crowd during the hourlong vigil, few words were spoken by the participants. Most in attendance took the time to reflect on what had happened to Clementi, sharing hugs and holding hands with others in a show if unity.
Among those attending was Rutgers student Julie Burg, who said she wanted to spread the message that help is available for students in crisis.
“There are many groups anywhere you go to that could help support you,” Burg told WCBS-TV in New York.
Burg was joined at the vigil by her mother, Annmarie Burg, who was saddened by the events leading to Clementi’s death.
“It had to take such an unfortunate incident like this to create, probably, an even larger awareness,” the mother said.
Prosecutors say Clementi’s roommate and another student used a webcam to broadcast on the Internet live images of Clementi having the intimate encounter.
Clementi, a promising violinist, jumped off the George Washington Bridge into the Hudson River three days later. His body was identified Thursday.
Rutgers President Richard McCormick said the vigil was an opportunity for students and staff to come together and “reaffirm our commitment to the values of civility, dignity, compassion and respect.”
On Friday, students wore black and were encouraged to leave flowers or mementoes at a makeshift memorial for Clementi.