1. Home Sweet Home. Frank Decorey moved from a nursing home to assisted living at Mission Ridge. "I don't like institutions, so I'm going back to my home place in Butte. Nothing against this place. It's great. This has got nursing homes beat 100 ways. That's no way to die." Late this summer, Decorey, 84, did move back to his old home in Montana. Not all elderly people can return home, however, and choosing an appropriate living situation can be confusing, not to mention stressful. Among the options is assisted living, which tries to provide as much independence and privacy as possible, combined with the special medical assistance some residents require. Photography by Torsten Kjellstrand
2. A Helping Hand. Mary Pringle has Alzheimer's disease. She gets care from her husband, Lem, and the assisted living staff at the Waterford. Health coordinator Jeri Carver stops by during a meal to check in. When couples have different medical needs, it sometimes means an end to their living together. But not for Lem and Mary. See their story inside. Pages E8-9
3. Ideal Fit. Left: "The reason I live here is I need help. I've got a little Alzheimer's and I forget things," says LaVerne Pettis in her room at The Academy. But her concerns go beyond conveniences and safety issues. "I chose this room because it had room for a decent rug, which I already had. It suits me. It's just right. You can see it's a nice room."
4. The Luau. Left: Cooper George resident Bob Colliton, in his 70s, learns to dance during a Luau in August. The facility not only roasted a whole pig, served with all the trimmings, but also arranged for authentic Hawaiian dancers to entertain and instruct residents.
5. Puppy love. Right: When Velma McKibbin, 81, was looking for an assisted living facility, she wanted more than the usual services. "The first question I asked was 'Do you take pets?' and those that didn't (take pets) I just hung up on." She ended up at Mission Ridge with her toy poodle Schotsie.
6. Pool Party. Left: Katherine Slinkard, 89, lines up a shot during pool night at Maplewood Gardens, while Geri Ellis watches. Pool isn't a new game to Slinkard, who uses a cue she gave her late husband for Christmas in 1968.
7. All Smiles: Right: Ruth Waters, 82, has some fun with 4-month-old Rahale Getnet. Rahale came to Moran Vista with her father, Getnet Tefferi, for a feeding and a visit with her mother, who works at the facility and is the adopted daughter of the owners. Assisted living facilities vary in size and complexity. Some are large, corporate-owned facilities. Others, such as Moran Vista, are smaller, family-owned and operated centers.
8. Blooming. Right: Jo Laney, 85, keeps her own garden behind the Maplewood Gardens. "You can see which balcony is mine from here in the garden," she says. "I've got stuff growing out there, too." Among the crops in the garden: flowers, beans and peas.
9. Quiet Time. Above: Brother Tony Cannon comes to Moran Vista every Monday to deliver Communion. When a flu bug recently kept most residents in their rooms, Cannon had a one-person parish, Ray Young, 86. Many residents struggle after leaving their life-long religious communities. Some still travel to their old churches, but many rely on visiting ministers.
10. Roll Call. Left: When residents arrive for meals at Maplewood Gardens, their names are checked off a list. If someone doesn't show, the staff calls the resident's room to make sure everything is well. If there is no answer, they pay a visit.