Dear Flabby,

My husband spends way too much time on the computer reading and commenting on some newspaper blog, Strawberries or something, he never takes me bowling anymore and has even lost interest in sex, I'm at wit's end! I'm still a young beautiful woman and I deserve better than this. -- Arguing in Athol.

Flabby: Your husband will never change. He's addicted. The worst thing you can do is try to make this marriage work. Call me. Really. We'll get together. I love to bowl, I've got a 10 handicap.

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