When Ladies' Home Journal writer Leslie Bennetts asked a 42-year-old man what, generally speaking, men want from women, he answered "sex on demand."
It's a big joke, right?
Not completely, according to a professor of psychiatry quoted in the same article. Says Willard Gaylin of Columbia University, "A man wants validation that even though the world around him is eroding his sense of potency, somewhere there's someone who's going to make him feel potent."
Worse, Gaylin says, this is why men tend to pull back when women offer what they think their man needs: sympathy.