Sleep training
As infants and toddlers, they also never took regular naps. Nowadays, they often don’t nap at all.
I’ve become accustomed to staying up late at night or waking
up early to get work done. I’ve also stopped struggling against our unusual sleeping habits. By just letting them in our bed, we at least get an extra hour of
sleep, even though the quality of sleep isn't always great.
Looking back, I wish we had bought that king-size bed.
Or, I should’ve been better about establishing sleep patterns. According to a new study, moms and dads who believe in drawing boundaries at bedtime end up with good sleepers.
In “The Juggle,” a Wall Street Journal blog, reporter Sue
Shellenbarger wrote about a recent study that indicated how a parents’ beliefs in infant sleep
can predict a child’s sleeping patterns. Here's an excerpt from her post, "Is the Key to Getting Babies to Sleep Ignoring Them?"
If an expectant mom thinks babies who cry at night are suffering distress and need to be soothed and comforted, her baby is likely to have more wakeful, weepy nights later, after controlling for other factors. … Mothers who believed in comforting crying babies at night also tended to be more active in trying to soothe them, holding or feeding them or bringing them into their own beds. These behaviors led to poorer sleep for the babies. … On the other hand, mothers who believed in limiting their involvement were less activist at night and also had babies who awakened less.
I’ve never been a good sleeper myself so I’m wondering if I’ve simply passed on bad habits to my kids.
How much sleep do you get at your house?