Bette Donovan, who died last month at 80, lived a quiet life for the last 25 years, with her husband, Robert, in Hayden Lake. Their life before that is another story, filled with hard work, celebrity clientele and national acclaim for their incredible stained-glass creations. In the '70s, Donovan Stained Glass Studio Inc. was the largest company of its kind in the United States. Bette and Robert met in Oakland, Calif., in 1948. They were both working in a drive-in restaurant, Andy's restaurant, at 19th and Harrison in Oakland. Robert was a soda-pop man who also worked the register, and Bette was a car-hop. Both of their families had moved to Oakland during the Depression looking for better opportunity. Bette lost her mother when she was very young and was in an orphanage for a time before the move to California.